Taking the Power Back in the Delivery Room

Words Jadesola Oginni

Who is really in control when a woman gives birth? You may think there is only one answer to this - the mother-to-be right? Incorrect! Midwife & Antenatal teacher Jadesola Oginnni explains that in actual fact, many women don’t feel as though they are in control during their delivery. Many mothers continue to express their concern with healthcare professionals such as obstetricians, midwives and healthcare assistants taking the lead during their care and ‘forcing them to undergo procedures’ or actively performing procedures without their consent. 

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Testimonials:

“I felt like I was bullied into having an induction of labour. They told me my baby was big but provided no evidence.” – Helen 

“It was my first baby and I was just 16 - I had heard on tv that you could deliver at home, but I was refused that option and was made to deliver at the hospital. I didn’t challenge them because I didn’t know how to, and no one fought for me either.” – Lucy 

“It was 1989 and I was new to the country. The midwives and doctors told me that it was normal for all women to have episiotomies. It happened with three out of four of my children. My last child was at home and I felt like I had more control over my body” – Abi

So, what should really happen in the delivery room?

From the point of booking an appointment, women should be given the opportunity to discuss where they would like to give birth. Your appointments are a chance to discuss the options you have as a mother to be, not to be told what to do. 

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Future recommendations for you:

·      Create a birth preference list.

·      If you have an extensive medical history, ensure you touch base with your clinical obstetrician before your delivery date. 

·      If you’re unsure about something, make sure you request the hospital guidelines.

Jadesola Oginni - Diabetic Specialist Midwife & Antenatal Class Teacher